Lighthearted
to the End

End-of-Life Accompaniment
for Elders & Their Families

“Dani is fully tapped in, knowing what you *need* even when you don’t. Perhaps especially when you don’t.”

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Why Lighthearted at End-of-Life?

I am PRO-AGING and DEATH-POSITIVE. Growing old (if we’re fortunate to do so) and experiencing the process of dying are natural and, in their own way, beautiful aspects of Life. This conviction feeds my lighthearted spirit while doing this work with you.

As an End-of-Life Doula, I walk shoulder-to-shoulder with your elder loved one and team of caregivers, bridging the gap between the clinical and the sacred with that lighthearted conviction. 

My mission and goal is to bring ease, and even joy, so your loved one can focus on what matters most for their final journey Home: finding peace and meaning.

My Unique Approach: Healeōlogy

I call my approach to the end of life “healeōlogy” (hee – lee – AH – luh – jee). Despite the fear, pain, and grief we encounter with death, I deeply believe we can discover the intrinsic dignity and beauty in this experience we all share. The three core principles of my approach are:

  1. Acceptance: Honoring our human body-mind-spirit nature in its entirety.
  2. Discipline: Embracing growth through all cycles of life, including death.
  3. Imagination: Seeing the wonder of our connection to humankind and nature.
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Trained by International End-of-Life Doula Association
Professional Member of End-of-Life Rhode Island
Professional Life Coach Certification
Master-Level Reiki Healer

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My End-of-Life Accompaniment

Depending on the shifting landscape of your loved one’s needs, I take on the role that meets them where they are.

The end of life is not a linear, organized process. As body, mind, and spirit move toward the final threshold, we cannot predict what arises day by day or moment by moment.

I won’t ask you to map out in advance what route we will take. I don’t offer predefined “service packages.” Instead, whenever I show up we turn to what’s needed in the moment.

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PRESENCE:
Companionship

The gift of human contact. I hold space and provide a steady, grounded presence at the bedside, ensuring your loved one never has to walk this path alone. We arrange a regular visit schedule so that I help fill in the gaps and give relief to other caregivers.

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PLANNING:
Practical Support

The clarity in the confusion. I provide the tools to organize logistics, helping you and your loved one process decisions that honor their values. We walk through checklists and resources on end-of-life planning to sort through the most practical matters.

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PASSAGE:
Reiki & Vigil

The sanctuary for the spirit. Whether through Reiki, guided meditation, or vigil planning and facilitation, I tend to the energy and atmosphere of your loved one’s space. We arrange sacred time dedicated to uplifting the spirit through this time of transition.

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PORTRAIT:
Legacy Work

The steward of your loved one’s story-telling. I help your loved one harvest wisdom, articulate what matters most, and weave a lasting record of their unique life legacy. We partner to document memories and milestones in written, audio, and visual form.

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PATTERNS:
Astrology

The lens of the infinite. I offer an imaginative perspective through psycho-spiritual astrology, illuminating the arcs of your loved one’s life journey. We join with open hearts and open minds to explore their life as spoken through the rhythms of the cosmos.

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testimonials

“Out of all the alternative therapy that I have sought in my life, Dani has definitely been the most prepared.”

“Dani brought me to a place where I was able to reconnect with divine source.”

“Dani took the time to help me understand how to prepare for our session and how it would progress.”

“My session was thoughtfully designed and specific to me. I felt known in a profound way.”

A Partner, Not a Product

My support is as fluid as your loved one’s needs. We are never tethered to a rigid plan; instead, we hold our intentions lightly. Today, they might need the Cousin to sit by their side. Tomorrow, they might need the Coach to help process a sensitive decision. My gift as a doula is in shifting to meet the moment.

I offer time-based packages without asking you to pre-determine which offering is needed. PRESENCE—companionship and relieving family caregivers—serves as the core of my support. But for every visit I will show up prepared to offer whichever form of accompaniment best serves—Presence, Planning, Passage, Portrait, or Patterns.

  • Tier 1 Weekly (4 hours per week): $300
  • Tier 2 Weekly (10 hours per week): $725
  • Tier 1 Monthly: (15 hours per month): $1,050
  • Tier 2 Monthly: (40 hours per month): $2,700

If you have an interest in my support but doubts about your ability to sustain my requested fee, please reach out so we can explore options. My desire is to serve.

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Dani Doucette

End-of-Life Doula

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